In our time, many scholars insist that astrology – science ” fossil .” But if so, astrology – the liveliest I know of dead languages ??.
Love always come first ! Since time immemorial – at least since they started to record historical events – astrologers bombarded with questions about the fate and love. Fates and love became inseparable concepts for all astrologers.
Today loneliness – perhaps one of the most serious problems that threaten both young and old. Paradoxically, in the age of modern technology among young people more and more subject to alcoholism and suicide. To avoid unwanted “pitfalls” , can be successfully used astrology, which teaches us how to determine the time to sow and a time to reap the rewards when and where to find your destiny and love.
Can anyone be happy in love ? Of course, nobody wants to be loved, no one can be prepared for defeat. However, there is the horoscope , which is clearly evident : people meet with difficulties in love, will suffer, fight and lose. However, some c using astrology love battle could be won brilliantly , while others would be better not to start . This is determined by horoscopes compatibility of partners , which are called resonance.
In astrology, love, marriage , friendship and sex – diverse concepts .
Friends – then join with the man in unselfish , and most importantly , free , spiritual relationship . Responsible for this planet Mercury and Uranus .
Love – is to have someone wanting him , entertain and relax with him , experience the passion and desire to produce the fruits of his – poems and songs , hugs and kisses , children.
For this love – inspired meets Neptune with a small admixture of Venus and Mars . Marriage same partnership – an alliance of equals, where people make a certain contract and publicly admit it. Marriage has in astrology primarily social , legal value and ruled by the planet Jupiter society . Sex in astrology is associated with the exchange of energy and transformation , change. Using their physical bodies , we connect to each other by an invisible thread . This is associated with Pluto , Mars and Venus . We are going to talk about destiny and love , but not marriage , as in astrology are two different things . Although the lives of many of us it is indivisible , and merges .
In the horoscope of every human being there is evidence , how and who exactly he will love in their lives. Of course, there are no names, but the symptoms can be considered . There penchant for younger lovers or older lover. Some of us prefer to love and money , ie choose those who can give something, and more. Everyone gets something different, and it takes a fee to receive . Usually, the main question – whether in your life exceptional sense ? Are you waiting for disappointment and loss ? All of this can be found by analyzing the horoscope .
Much depends on how the location of planets in the horoscope , particularly where there is sun . Depending on this, people are completely different like each other .
Typical Aries , that is, those who have most of the planets in this sign , fall hard and fast , addicting , but then may suddenly fall out of love .
Calves on the contrary, are in need of affection , they need to win , to take what is called a ” of attrition .”
Gemini is very fickle want interesting conversations , fascinating conversations. They can hardly be called a very passionate. But it’s interesting .
Cancers same passive, shy , vulnerable and very sentimental.
Lions prefer when they do not like , as and when they bow before them. However, if they love you , you will find this the biggest and true love in life.
Virgo and Aquarius usually love truly once in a lifetime. Virgin looking for stability and peace. Aquarians – friend and associate .
Libra wants an active partner . They can win the pressure as well as the Taurus .
Scorpions are looking for a passionate , strong man , not afraid of pain and suffering.
Sagittarians – idealists . Straightforward and honest.
Capricorns – reserved, but passionate. You will long to check the strength of the relationship .
Fish are very vulnerable in love and almost never completely satisfied with my choice.
If you – a man fire plan ( Aries, Leo, Sagittarius ) : hot, impulsive, passionate , you want to immediately get the object of his ambition , not caring about the outcome. If you love a person of the water element ( Fish, Cancer, Scorpio ) who craves absorption and dissolution of the senses, you will have serious problems . You are too rough for him , too much and you want to quickly , but hardly able to understand it. We can not be in harmony with people who are alien to us in its energy balance . And we need to know the person more than just a sign of the Zodiac in which the Sun was his birthday – Cancer or Capricorn Does this . Need to own more complete information. To do this, there is resonance and astrology .
Maybe you remember that some people call you in irresistible interest. And others do not cause anything . It is the nature speaks for you. It is rarely wrong . Planet of your horoscope ” attracted ” to the planets right person. Without it there is no love and attraction. Everybody needs love . Cherished dream of every one of us – meet your soul mate and live with her happily ever after life. Not everyone believes that it is possible – but this is the dream . Let’s think about what happens when we meet her only single or why our way to each other is often long and difficult.
First of all , any really important work requires some knowledge and experience. In our case – when it comes to a long happy life with his single (or only) , or to find your destiny and love for life , it is primarily an emotional experience , psychological . Man just need something to survive in a relationship to learn to understand himself, his feelings and needs to set some priorities for yourself in a relationship.
But how to find a soul mate? Finding the optimal partner usually begins in an age when it is difficult to take serious decisions . There are several reasons . One of them – the lack of psychological maturity . In 20-22 people are formed as a person , but the experience is still usually a bit and because his own problems , interests, goals and priorities he himself did not fully understood. Another difficulty – not so long ago otshumevshee puberty and , as a consequence , the task to learn to understand their sexual needs , to distinguish love from sex. Some people are aware of it , and so straight and say that the family is not going to create yet . Others are trying hard to see in each new satellite or companion features the very constriction or narrowing.
In fact, the satellite for life at this age are few, and this way, the path of early marriage is perhaps the most difficult . Indeed, in the range from 20 to 30 years people varies . Attain psychological maturity with a partner is not easy , it is necessary to go through a series of crises – and handle it can not please everyone . It is known that early marriages often end in divorce . This plays a significant role and psychological immaturity of young married couples . However , the experience of a failed marriage is often a good school of life , which passed , people are clearly aware of what he needs a family , and what is not needed. No wonder second marriages statistics much stronger first .
Attitudes toward marital problems greatly influences the experience of parental family . A child who survived her parents’ divorce , who grew up in single-parent family , often grows with a set of beliefs and fears on family life and the possibility of happiness in marriage . The man , who had no opportunity to observe the relationship of the spouses on the example of parents or close living relatives , usually not quite really imagine of what constitutes everyday family life . As a result of lack of information is supplemented by their own ideas , which are far from reality, and this can cause problems . However, these difficulties can be overcome , just worth bearing them in mind .
Important issue – the ability to trust the other person to open up. Often early frustration interfere with a person truly reveal the soul to another , build a truly intimate relationship . Fear of intimacy , openness , too often proves an obstacle to creating a happy family . Avoiding close , trusting relationship , people tend to choose the object of his affection, love someone inaccessible , with whom there can be nothing (for example , the girl has an affair with a married man ) . However, and this problem is solved .
Do not forget that each person lives in the rhythm of their lives. It would be strange if life evolved on different people to the same scenario: educated, married , etc. And most importantly , remember that in this world is your other half , which will just disappear without you . And if you have not met her – that are sure to meet . But how to find love and fate , as the highlight of the crowd and possibly someone with whom you can link their destiny and create a harmonious and happy marriage ? Try to turn to astrology to find the key to the heart of a man or woman . Stars tell us how to arouse interest of the opposite sex , as it is to keep with me .
In our time, many scholars insist that astrology – science ” fossil .” But if so, astrology – the liveliest I know of dead languages ??.
Meeting the second half, so I want to shout to the whole world , ” we will always be together” . But there comes a first fight , and with it the horrifying thought : what if no luck?
In search of his destiny , we meet new people, meet, eyeing . And when meeting with another little man who became so close , I want to find out how to understand what it is your destiny . So you want to make sure that the meeting with him – this is not another attempt to strike up a relationship and not just work on the mistakes of the past life! I want to be sure that it does not slip , and really love forever ! Now we will try to determine whether the initial stages of a relationship determine what your meeting was fateful ?
How to learn their fate in the face of a loved one?
Of course, an absolute guarantee that you will not go wrong with the choice of the satellite ( s) Shown life impossible. Most meetings in our lives and so are not random , so even if you are not destiny to be together, most likely this man given to you for a reason, and in order to remove it from communicating with him some lessons . Nevertheless , there are some signs that the love and destiny in your life finally meet . Let’s try to consider them.
Symptom number 1: Scream of the heart: ” It is he ! ” (Or “she” ) . Very often such that at first glance at the new acquaintance , going on with you and something inexplicable inside you rejoice every cell because the fateful meeting took place . Sometimes it is not at first sight , and some time after the beginning of communication. The impression is that your dream or a happy dream finally materialized in reality , and you feel incredible joy from the fact that it happened.
how to understand that it is your life sudbaIstoriya of number 1. They met on the Internet, and it so happened that were very far apart , and there was no opportunity to meet . First date could take place only six months . They did not think about how to understand what it’s fate , but just happy to communicate. And something invisible carefully guarded their relationship . Girl’s heart for the first time a couple of weeks later rejoiced communication – she had no doubt that he is . And without even thinking , other men blocked the way into your heart . Two weeks after the first meeting they had lived together .
But : a person who seeks by all means to find your destiny , very often is in the expectations of their happiness. So instead of intuitive and truthful feeling it may visit delusions or eclipsing heart pulse mind that new friend and have a love of a lifetime. Therefore, you should become familiar with the following signs of how to understand it – your destiny .
Eros from 4 types of love- is reckless , all-consuming passion , based on physical attraction .
lyubovTakie relations require constant passions , cause a feeling of fullness , richness of life.
As a partner , we see that we ourselves do not have enough confidence: confidence , willingness to take risks, knowledge, experience …
We idealize the object of his passion , convinced that such strong feelings can only cause an exceptional man .
This types of love - passion does not last long . It all depends on how much we need these projections.
Sooner or later there comes an insight, and we see the man as he actually is . And either accept it, or disillusioned , goodbye .
Love – passion gives us an unforgettable experience , paints life in bright colors helps to discover a fact that was previously beyond comprehension . But it can not be the basis for a strong relationship . Long-term relationship requires, above all , taking the other as he is. It is such a complete and unconditional acceptance of infatuation leads to a much more ” rational “, calm and soothing love.
love of types
Storge – this love – friendship based on common interests , memories, the same attitude towards life .
Such love can develop from long friendships.
There are not the main sexual relationship. Emotional rather than physical presence close to the excitement of the partner and is the foundation of love , friendship.
Such relationships are reliable and durable, they give confidence that the partner always understand and support .
But this love – friendship sometimes is too boring , mundane and predictable. It lacks passion , mysteries , intrigues and games. All this can lead to a desire to seek new thrills elsewhere.
lyubovFiliya – this love – respect.
Such relationships suggest that each partner – self-sufficient person . Here joined together desire and reason .
Partners love each other, but do not belong to each other altogether. Everyone has their own life , not necessarily where the presence of another .
There is no absolute , unconditional , merger, when everything in common : friends, interests , thoughts, feelings .
This union is not completely dissolve in each other , and there is an understanding that the other – and he actually different and therefore has the right to the “other ” life.
The basis of this kind of love – respect , not only to the partner, but also to himself. Understanding of their own interests and desires can achieve deep and lasting relationship which will be comfortable for both partners .
Agape – the love – sacrifice.
It involves constant self-sacrifice , neglect his own interests for the interests of another .
LyubovTakaya love victim is extremely contradictory . For all his self-sacrificing beauty, it leads first to the inside , and then to the external conflict . Sacrificing oneself , we usually expect from victims and others. Unjustified and incommensurability such expectations leads to insults , accusations and quarrels.
Such a union can be quite durable, but only if the desire to sacrifice himself for the sake of another – a genuine spiritual need , and not an attempt to evoke a sense of guilt in the partner and to shift the responsibility for themselves .
Remember the phrase, uttered the well-known hero of the cartoon about a clumsy but cute panda: “The past – forgotten, the future – is closed now – granted?” Well said, is not it? It encompasses a very deep meaning: do not live in the past or the future, we should enjoy every present moment. And we seem to have tried to follow this principle: notice any little thing that could make us happy, do not put off important things (at least try). But with a habit many of us can not cope: living in the past, and not his own, and others.
It is not easy to reconcile with the fact that until we have the man she jump of loved had a life, other relationships, he hugged the other, but even then his, a girl, was confident that will connect with her life. We are tormented myself time from time asking the question: how could he be happy with someone else? Constantly referring to the past, we can not live peacefully in the present, tormented suspicions and figuring out who we love. Let’s see how to curb this destructive feeling for what, in general, are not.
For ex- jump of loved
This is the most common form of jealousy in the past. Sometimes we need only one casually tossed phrase: “And I flew to Greece with Lena” to go on the Internet to their account and search files in search of her photographs. And if you still find it’s sure to see that it is much prettier us. We somehow think that with a former girlfriend or wife, it was much better. Suffer, imagining how he hugged her and kissed her, as a declaration of love and promised to be with her always. In general, toss yourself firewood into the flames of jealousy.
How to get rid of? Stop asking jump of loved all the details of his relationship with the former, if only because it all relates only to his life. First, it violates his personal space, and, secondly, to hurt you. After all, if you are so badly react to what had happened to him before, the details you’d rather not know. Fighting is sometimes enhances the resistance, and if you catch yourself on this and mentally admitted: “I am jealous to the last guy,” it will help to calm down.
One more important thing – sounds corny, but if he broke up with that girl, so this was the reason. Now he is with you, and it will likely also a reason. Maybe not trust your partner, not being exchanged for the problems of those “she figured out she was offended?”
To all former passion
One of my friends can not even think calmly about what to her, her husband was someone. At first glance, this sounds crazy: the spouse no longer a snotty young man, and a very interesting man, who, of course, attracts the attention of women. It is understood that before the wedding, he did not sit at home and was “looking for”, and quite active. One day he told his wife sloppy about some of his past adventures, and she took everything too personally. Now, the jealousy of a former girls do not give her peace of mind. She is looking for a catch virtually every mention of his bachelor life. It is not surprising that such behavior wife upset the family and makes a loving husband to move away.
How to get rid of? In such situations, many of us are driven by fear that a jump of loved one is not fully severed the emotional bond with the former favorite. We torment ourselves the questions: why he chose was their might, with them he was better than me, etc. If the jealousy of the past you suffer unnecessarily, and in your present does not appear letters and phone calls from those with whom he was associated before, it is worth considering. Maybe this masks other concerns? You are not sure that this is “your man”, or yourself pining for past relationships. After all, the fact that he was someone to you, he is nothing in front of you not guilty. In the end, and you have a relationship to it. Is not it?
To his children
If you look, the experience on his love for a child from previous relationships involve not the smallest person, the one who gave birth to him. Whatever you say, children – a strong link between a mother and a father, even if they are divorced. This may concern, to inspire fear that he will return to the former. But the ban loved to talk with their child at least silly, dishonesty and just plain wrong.
How to get rid of? As the saying goes, “a child of the light is not asking” and if there was, it has the right to communicate with both parents, even if they do not live together. Care for children – a measure of accountability and reliability of men. And if your jump of loved one has a child, and he can not even think about getting in touch with him to stop – Rejoice. This is a real man. Women’s wisdom sometimes helps to unravel the situation in which no work of any advice from experienced friends or specialist consultations.
By the things from the past
Any trinkets donated by the former, photos, sometimes even an ordinary card can lead to scandals and tantrums, and sometimes even to the desire to end the relationship. Such a situation, if you tend to idealize the past and the present diminish. A jealous person is thinking, “If he keeps these gifts, so they are important to him, so he still feels something for his ex.” It does not matter even though these, such as cufflinks – unique in his wardrobe, and without them he can not do. Many still consider it unacceptable.
How to get rid of? It is not necessary to solve the problem by ripping to shreds and throwing gifts cards left over from the former. This will cause a storm of indignation, but not because they are dear to him, but simply because it would be a gross interference. It is better to talk honestly with your partner, let him help defeat your jealousy to the past.
To his past lifestyle
Sometimes we ourselves assure ourselves that our partner is now live much worse and more boring than before. It happens when he repeatedly enthusiastically tells everyone around his theater troupe went on tour around the country, or perhaps it was cool when he could spontaneously gather with friends for a week-long fishing trip. We quickly dorisovyvayut a mental picture of his happy past and the unhappy life with us, and our feelings immediately rebuilt in the mode of jealousy.
How to get rid of? No matter how it’s corny, but it will help the discussion. Learn, is it really now he’s bored, and if he wants to go back in time, where it was so much fun, but it was not you. It may well be that the answer of your favorite change all your ideas. It is important to honestly admit that you are jealous of him in the past. But not in order to bring it to clean water, and to ensure that he was able to understand you.
Jealous, we slowly or rapidly, but surely kill all the good that is in our relations. Begin suspicion tricky questions, and in particularly difficult cases – quarrels and scandals. Jealous of the past, we also inspire your partner guilt is not clear why. In fact, we reproach him that was when our relationship is not even begun. Agree, the past is not vycherknesh. In order to cope with the oppressive feeling, you need to build a new life here and now, to lay the foundations for new traditions. This is the only way to the present, to the very relationship where you and your jump of loved one will be comfortable.
Andrey Dmitriev, “I thought – and then I was hit by a car“
Only the writer Andrei Dmitriev in Moscow got a huge diploma laureate “Yasnaya Polyana” for the novel “The Peasant and the teenager.” A successful product is a short-list of two awards: “Russian Booker” and “The Big Book.” On Thursday, we agreed to meet. But on this day with him and there was a dramatic story on the transition.
The light of the great Lion
On Friday, true to his word, Andrew still came to the “MK” and said not a word that is injured. And we started talking with him about the natural premium “Yasnaya Polyana” and Tolstoy.
- Everything connected with Tolstoy, for me holy. Tolstoy – my favorite character of Russian history. I think his life, his destiny and activities justify everything in our history that can not be justified otherwise. Thick – this is a significant result of Russian history. He was a man of giant mind, conscience and honor, somehow managed to answer for everything and everyone.
- You – winner Apollon Grigoriev, you have translated into different European languages. And how do you feel about literary prizes?
- Actually, I especially literary awards never interested her. And in early childhood I liked to play with the Order of the Red Star of my grandfather. He’s so heavy, pleasant to the touch.
- Andrew, that you, a man of good family traditions, the concept of “home.” In short, your existential view of the house?
- Oh, it’s a very difficult question for me. (After a pause) House – this is what we all seek. For us, our whole country was home. We want to find a home that would have been for us not only to cover, shelter, not only of our shell, but our mirror, that is, the manifestation of the soul. Some people do it, someone – no. In fact, writers – the people homeless.
That’s why it’s so important Yasnaya Polyana. That’s a real home. He focused, and self-Tolstoy and all his misfortunes, his joy, and all the troubles. There raced naischastliveyshie moments of his life when he was in Jump 4 love when he wrote “War and Peace”. And there he was overtaken by the monstrously heavy last years of his life. But it’s always been home.
- In the book, Paul Basinsky many interesting, documented personal privacy Tolstoy. I was struck by the details of Tolstoy love to peasant. Maybe this love is not caused great suffering to Leo, but because he did not drive from the heart of the saving love of silence.
- The story of his connection with Matryona was married to Tolstoy. He really loved her and fathered a son. But really only liked Sophia Andreevnu. It was totally crazy love. It was all, and the end of life – hysteria, hatred …
With Elena Kostyukovich, translator Ulbert Eco on Russian language.
Writer Andrei Dmitriev – one of the finalists of the “Russian Booker” and “Big Book” (7 photos)
- In mladye years, according to him, the passion of Jump 4 love, he was indefatigable.
- Man! But after marriage – only his wife. Both of them were jealous of each other. Of course, he broke the psyche of his young wife, showing her intimate diary.
- It was an act of repentance! In front of her, in front of the deity, he cleansed the soul. This recognition is a man possessed flesh was so badly written that the texts wounded consciousness of his young wife.
A woman in the house of the writer
- Andrew, we have gone with you to the home of Yasnaya Polyana and in your own home is the place you provided for the women? Who is she? Goddess? Girlfriend?
- I do not have a generalized, abstract look. When I look at a woman perceive it specifically. It can be a friend, and the hostess, even brownies – anyone, it can destroy the house. It all depends on who she is. If we fall in love rationally on the basis of some of the preferred qualities, but it is not so.
- Do not rule out the influence of some mystical interventions?
- Natasha, I’m a very sober man, though a romantic warehouse. You made me look for an answer. I think the house is, to a large extent – is an attempt to escape from loneliness. Ideally, a woman in the house and should be an escape from this loneliness.
In the film world
- What do you live? In today’s life it is difficult to live without a paycheck.
- I – trained screenwriter. For more than 30 years in this business. I live scenarios – they are my earnings.
- What picture on your scenario and well filmed by director meets your mental system?
- Oh! To some extent recently filmed “Alice-book dealer” Alexei Rudakov. Frankly, this is a disaster of my life, I do not think the picture on my scripts adequate reflection of me. Writer writes cake mix. The author is the director. The writers who would be proud of their scripts, I knew a little bit. And the paintings worthy of pride, too little. But there who envy. For example, Paul Finn: he participated in the creation of one of the most brilliant films Ilya Averbakh ‘declaration of love. ” But the scenario in my life there is no such scenes. But the scenario fees, no matter how they are disproportionately low, yet somehow make it possible to hold on to.
- Admit it, Andrew, whom filmmakers think of our prophet, genius?
- In the Russian cinema of the prophets, not really. But, of course, there are geniuses. Another thing – the one I love. This is not the same. Tarkovsky – a genius, but he’s a complete stranger to me directed, with the exception of “Andrei Rublev” and part of “The Mirror.” The film “Ivan’s Childhood” in the spirit can not stand. But they blame the writer who lied to everyone, not director: Tarkovsky sought his own style.
I love Ilya Averbakh love Gleb Panfilov, especially the film “Mr. Speaker.” This is the best Soviet film, bearing in mind the “Soviet” – no figs in your pocket, without praise, sober film about the Soviet people, the Soviet reality, free, sober, powerful, but just a grand movie! If someone wants to understand what was the Soviet life, smell it, leaving behind the scenes monstrous Soviet way of life, and see the core of Soviet life, then of course you need to watch “Mr. Speaker.”
- I remember your sharp article in the big book “New Banner” that Russia has received in return.
- Unfortunately, my hopes for change were not justified. I had hoped: the country’s leaders will understand that the main resource of the country – it is a personal freedom of citizens, quite inexhaustible resource. But somehow, this important resource buried in the ground.
- The hope is running out.
- Do not we all began, and we all end. We want to make things happen for the better within our biological existence.
- Let’s talk, Andrew, better about your personal character. When you write about the passions of his characters, you feel if your own mental stress? For example, cast the characters in the depths of a passion, and he could not help her become a carrier.
- Or I’ll certainly support it, has been, and still am, or watch it for a specific people. I’ve come up with very little. In fact I write about people, not about his frame of mind. And the people – it’s passion. And, of course, worried along with the characters when I write about them. If you write a cold and aloof, you probably false bowels out.
- Your communication environment – creative people. Seen among them completely exhausted creative life? This condition is commonly referred to as “tear” …
- Unfortunately, people with anguish, with complexes with a broken sense of its failure – a lot. About their condition can always be found on the eyes.
- What are the eyes? Of detachment?
- Well, no. These eyes look at you with suspicion. Hello to you, he’s trying to guess what I think of him. It certainly suggests that I’d be lying to him. This unsuspecting eyes … But it is put on the face of certain rubber smile.
- The nature of facial features masterfully captured. Unaware always rehearsing their special acting.
- Almost all the people to some extent acting. But, thank God, whom I affectional coexisting with whom to meet and make friends in the literary environment – all these people who understand. For me, this is the ideal person Genrikhovich Leonid Zorin. I know him from 73rd year. He is not only a playwright, but also a brilliant writer. Wise, calm and sober people. Yes, and my peers – Alex Slapovsky, Marina Vishnevetskaya – that’s not fractured, all the people who understand.
With sister Rima in the country.
- You journalists, like all mysticism. So here is the last month of life opened to me a lot of life’s problems. All the time I was in a state of some social fears. Always afraid that will not come any money and I do not pay a loan, I do not get somewhere, forget something important or fall into a situation from which I can not get out.
- In bulk glitches!
- Probably, every morning waking up with a feeling of anxiety: will I work? Will there be a signed contract with me? .. In short – a whole set of fears, though justified. And as a result – Yesterday I drove over to the car. I was going through a transition. The car began to move, do not see me, threw me into the unknown. In the air, in a moment, I thought, “It would not have hit his head against the hood or on the asphalt.” Fortunately, I fell very well – bruised hip bone. I must say, I was hit by a very nice woman.
- Beware of pretty women.
- Actually, I have a good hit. She’s a doctor and more scared than I was willing to assist me, to pay money to take him to the hospital. Checked, as all works for me. Asked for forgiveness. She remained at home unattended 4-year-old child. I confess that I myself clapping ears: it was for the transition, but looking in the opposite direction …
When it happened, I suddenly realized why I was last month zaporoshen some stupid things. And here’s a sign of destiny – now you could die or become crippled. Rejoice – you’re still alive. And do not become bitter!
- Yes, you have conscientious nature, so all is forgiven.
- No, no, just sitting in the car a good man. I realized that I experienced a woman who wanders me. She is 20 years behind the wheel, but this it did not happen.
- And the writer, of course, now reflects on the moral lesson.
- Yes, we’re afraid of. Us in life just do not have basic votes. That’s it. And yesterday, I felt a sense of gratitude rush of fate, life.
Lithuanian Christian roots
- There was no rush to thank the powers of heaven? This they spared you, have protected and saved.
- There is such a feeling. These two days I think about it.
- Are you a believer? As a Russian …
- If I were a Russian man, he would be an unbeliever. The majority of Russian people do not believe in God, and in rituals, believe in amulets. Truly Orthodox enough. I consider myself a Christian, or rather, would like to become a Christian. Feel the same way and at the sight of an Orthodox church, and the Catholic mass. I’m not sectarian. Not a man of the pack.
- Your exclamation “if I were a Russian” – is of interest to your nationality. Explain.
- I was born in a family of philologists Leningrad University Viktor Dmitriev and Niele Patkauskayte.
- Here is the solution: you’re half Lithuanian.
- Yes, my mother studied in a girls’ school in Kaunas, perfectly knew Latin. Niele and Victor sang in the famous choir Sandler. And on the 5th year made me into the light. After receiving diplomas, the young family moved to Pskov, where his father spent his childhood. Later, he devoted himself to the Komsomol and party work, he taught at the Academy of Social Sciences, and during the restructuring was in command Yakovlev. My mother first taught Russian language and literature at the school and then, in Moscow, worked in the publishing house “Science.”
- The Lithuanian part of your blood, of course, finds comfort in the Catholic church. I married into the Lithuanian poetry – poetry translated Dali Sauskaytite. She liked my translations, they were printed in several youth poetry collections. And I, the Orthodox, too appeasing Orthodox and Catholic churches.
Trying to learn the identity of
- Andrew, you sacrifice inherent in the name of friendship?
- Well, what to say? I really appreciate this sacrifice. I’ll try to remember if I was going to great expense in the name of friendship … No. But let’s think: wife of a friend – taboo for me.
- Do not tempt?
- Do not allow yourself this.
- Do not dare to think?
- (Laughs) and I venture to think can. But do not commit. This sacrifice or self-sacrifice? I do not know. However, the wife of an enemy – is a worthy trophy.
- You, the writer and screenwriter, is whether or climbs into the soul of the problem of human conscience?
- Of course, it takes. Actually, I – the man, all the while conscious that my conscience – not starched shirtfront. Not at all. All the time we have to think about some of their sins. Yes and no sin, that word is not from here. I have always been oppressed by the feeling that I did something hath made, or what not to do. When my parents died in the summer of 2001 in the Vladimir region during the fire, have long suffered the pain that I did not pay attention to them warm. The tragedy happened at night. They had a small house – chalet, such as giving …
Worries me and other personal tragedy that I did not have time to make peace with my dear man, who is no longer on the ground … I find it hard to talk about it – I’m afraid it will touch and hurt those close to me emotionally.
- Tell me about her son. You now have changed address: left Moscow and Russia and fell in love with Ukraine. But what about the son?
- My 11 year old son Artem – my deep joy. It is beautiful, very smart, timid and adult. Learning to play the cello and organ. It refers to the hobby with a passion. A lot of work, sporty – playing tennis.
- A Dad?
- Dad does not play tennis. My father left the family to a new life. But I value our good relationship with Artem. Only what about my retirement from the family to tell everyone?
With Leonid Yuzefovich.
- In Moscow, Andrew, do not hide anything from a human trial. It is better not idle talk – learn firsthand about marital discord. What’s wrong with a sensitive novelist? The sudden as lightning, Jump 4 love?
- Yes …
- This is typical of contemporary fiction writers.
- I moved to Kiev and more or less settled down. I like it very much. The beautiful city. By the way, Kiev was for me. I have long suffered: Moscow is becoming increasingly estranged for me. It was annoying. Kiev – sweet, beautiful, very human city. I’ve got a lot of friends. And, thank God, I have not lost friends in Moscow. Some of them came to Kiev on his own business, and there we see each other more often than in Moscow. I work with a very nice young publisher. Now busy drawing up and filled his portfolio. I have a lot to do in Kiev! My earnings have remained in Moscow.
- Has the rhythm of life rejuvenated writer Dmitrieva?
- Began to travel more! Flooded new experience. I must admit, I got there a strong impulse.
- The radical lifestyle change is likely to affect a change of style. Calm, slow intently to the being-existence of heroes give way to impulse and unpredictability?
- Anything is possible. After I finished the novel, “The Peasant and the teenager”, the year did not write prose. But this happened in the summer of personal change, and feel: originate in the head four of the plot. This I have not had.
- One of them climbs ahead?
- Intends to give life to all four subjects.
- In my mind sticking Lermontov’s words: “I walked on the chest, I sacrificed myself.” Have you bring such a high sacrifice?
- Oh, no. I am the same person peacetime – was not on the barricades, no one pulled out from under the ruins, risking a brick on the head. But every time when it comes into this adventure as writing a novel, and it is 3-4 years of life, you risk losing a failure, you realize that it is a long time to just throw it away, although any work gives some sense of purchase.
- Well, if at that time certainly need to switch to the script? So work on the novel stops?
- Scenario – a question of time. You fall into a time pressure, the producers hate you. Delayed – you hurry, and then went budge prose. Fits somehow. Fortunately, the script and prose in my head – two different ovens and bake bread they are different. Probably my hemisphere divided their responsibilities – they never intersect. Scenarios – this craft. A completely different language. They do not expend his literary agent.
I admit, I’m getting tired of scriptwriting. Even more so – in our cinema unfavorable situation. The pure joy of this profession brings me a little bit.
- You inspire? There is a tendency to the prophecies?
- No, I am not a prophet. But peculiarly suggestible. Tell me something, and I always take everything at face value. I live it at some point.
- We can assume that the condition can be instilled some salvation, to bring you serenity?
- A dangerous thing! It is necessary to straighten themselves in time. It is better to look at the matter coldly, from the side.
- In your new Ukrainian nest there things from the past life?
- Nothing. This is a small removable flat on Oleg’s Hill, where the prince was bitten by a snake. In Kiev, everything is interesting. Wonderful city oozes historical subjects.
- There’s probably a writer to survive easier?
- There’s a lot cheaper and cheaper. Compared to Moscow, you feel even without the money a wealthy person.
- Andrew, in the end of our conversation, asked several questions from the questionnaire 19-year-old Marcel Proust. He invented it and answered. Qualities that prefer in men?
- (After a pause) Um.
- And the women?
- I arranged differently. Usually I start from a particular female character.
- Well, then I’ll specify: what attracted you to your last Kiev girl?
- The liveliness of life perception. More specifically, the responsiveness of the soul.
- What satisfies friends?
- Humanity and talent. In all, more expensive – soulful talent.
- What most do not like in a man?
- Chuzhemyslie, inertia perceived from the outside absurd principles, views and facilities.
- Your dream of happiness. What is it?
- Oh! I’m happy.
- And there is a feeling of complete happiness?
- Feelings can change from day to day. But now I’m happy.
- For you, what was the greatest misfortune?
- The death of my loved ones. I have experienced it more than once.
- Guess who’s your favorite author …
- Yes, it’s Tolstoy.
- A favorite poets?
- I have it all in motion: that favorite – Pushkin, then – Z, the favorite – Hodasevich. We have so many great poets – all the states of the soul!
- That’s fine. They all deserve admiration and love. What a talent you would like to be apart of God calling to be a writer?
- I have a good ear for music, if I started to live again, would be either a musician or a biologist, or a painter.
- Probably, once you take a brush and paint watercolors or oil?
- As a child, every tasted. But since then not picked up any pencil or paintbrush: understand – do not go to the artists. Manila literature. And all the other passions as cut off. And fond of music since childhood. I love to sing anything. My friend Andrew Nemzer – we had studied together at the Moscow State University Philology – when I went to university to become the screenwriting department, joked, “Dmitriev will not stop there. He will go to voice. ” In every joke has some truth. I Jump 4 love to sing songs salon emigre 20 – 30′s, some spicy gypsy music.
- Do you have some deep-seated motto?
- No. I have a motto that I envy. Beautiful avtoepitafiya Gregory Pans: “The world was catching me, but did not catch.” I is currently not manage to say.
- You can now briefly define the condition of your spirit?
- Condition of the rich, working. I would say – elastic.
- Well, it is possible to make the leap.
“For many, life mother Mary had been a stumbling block. In the past, the social-revolutionary, who was married twice, converting to Christianity, she remained leftist thinker, an anarchist revolutionary spirit. Many emigrants shocked her friendship with the Jews. She was a nun, recognized that the lives of most monasteries is only a pale substitute for family life, it angered fans and contemplative seclusion. She refused all comfort, whether liturgical lulling, whether the silence of the monastery gate, taking until the end, until the death of the severe poverty, inexhaustible ingenuity of love, to permanently take its place in the “emptying” samoumalenii God made man, and in this hath brought world all the madness of his love. In this woman unending, violent and unbridled power of life was like long jump love. ”
So wrote about his mother Mary Orthodox theologian Olivier Clement French.
Yes, in today’s Russia the image of Mother Mary, the now sainted Patriarch of Constantinople, is a stumbling block and temptation, of which many stumble. But it is also a stone at a crossroads, where we, as a knight in a fairy tale should choose the right path: go left – lose your horse, yourself sberezhesh, and will roll to the right – you lose yourself, horse sberezhesh. Mary the mother’s life contained in itself so much – inspiration and creativity, service, and sacrifice, prophecy, and foolishness.
The king, prophet and psalmist David. Watercolors, 1913-1917
It has always been a creative person, she wrote poetry, drew great (in the vaults Russian Museum in St. Petersburg store her early drawings). In jump love youth she was friends with the poets of the Silver Age: Blok, Anna Akhmatova, Gumilev, V. Ivanov. She predicted the glory of a great poet. When fate has thrown her into exile, she stopped writing poetry, and its theological articles are very appreciated Berdyaev, believing that she had a real philosophical male mind. Taking the vows, the mother of Mary created parishes and almshouses, sewing garments, embroidered garments, shrouds, writing icons, painted the walls, made stained glass windows. You do not own the artifacts – written or painted or woven – were important to her, but the spirit in which it was enveloped by creating these works, the Spirit of Love, the Holy Spirit.
Often write about her, that she prayed a little and cared more about the charity. But quantitatively calculate the prayer? But the quality of the prayer ministry feel you can: her charity, for that matter, and her work has been the fruit of prayer and prayer. Since then, as she stood in the way of service, every minute of her life became Anticipation before God, as befits a monk. She often said, “On the day of judgment I will not ask whether successful my ascetic exercises, how much do I put her bows. Instead, I am asked whether I fed the hungry, clothed to naked, visiting the sick and prisoners. It’s all about what you ask me. ”
On the other silence will of God to pray,
Embroider endless pattern
Lead me slowly scarlet thread
Amid the deserts and mountains turning blue.
I Vyshyu olive wood over the water,
Dark gear crosses, fishermen in,
Endless blue skies outstretched,
Red fish among transparent seas.
And the broad canopy of blue dove fly
With a halo of clear light;
And among the star field will split the devil
Vyshyu gold waving swords.
Poems mother Mary, her philosophical and theological works published today. This is a serious legacy of many decades will be studied and comprehended. Liturgical images and embroidery, it is created, and it clearly showed an intense spiritual and prayer life. They are known for a wide range of smaller, but it is they offer some special facet of personality Mother Mary, who has struggled all his life with darkness and ugliness of life in all its manifestations. Collecting and processing the lives of the saints (this book was published under the title “The harvest of the Spirit”), the mother of Maria wanted to write all the characters of these stories on the icons to fit inside the space of our life as a kind of abstract images, as well as our heavenly friends, coming for us in prayer before the heavenly throne.
One of the most popular saints of the mother Mary was Basil. Foolishness for Christ’s sake it was close and clear. Hagiographical icon of St.. Basil was written by her for the Orthodox parish in Paris (now in the monastery Signs to Mars, France). And this image is striking in its prophetic power. Of all the host of the saints she chose him, he was her Russian model of holiness, a symbol of opposition to the temptations of worldly kingdom. His image was relevant then, in the 1930s., And remains relevant today.
Basil lived in the XVI century., During the reign of Ivan the Terrible. He chose a difficult feat – the spiritual power of the king to resist the tyrant and murderers, not afraid to speak ill of the mighty truth, when all the people remained silent. In this image she had seen an example of true spiritual struggle – the struggle began with the beginning of the Christian Anti-Christ. Of course, all took this image of the then projected onto reality. At the time, Russian state ideology tried to raise a shield of Ivan the Terrible, showing him as a great statesman. Recall the famous film by Sergei Eisenstein’s “Ivan the Terrible” by Nikolai Cherkasov in the title role. True, the movie was not all that easy.
In January 1941, Eisenstein was summoned to the Kremlin and proposed theme of the film in which it was necessary to show the greatness of jump love the Terrible, Russia united, not forgetting its Baltic gains, and thus hint at the grandeur of the modern ruler. The first part was filmed and shown in 1944, in Moscow, received the most praise Ezenshteyn evaluation and was awarded the Stalin Prize. The director began work on the second series, in which the victorious military campaigns were replaced by scenes Oprichnina zalivshey blood all over the country. And then the authorities were afraid of unwanted parallels. The second series was heavily criticized Stalin. Issue picture was banned Decision of the Central Committee of the CPSU (b) on August 4, 1946, which stated: “The director Sergei Eisenstein in the second episode of” Ivan the Terrible “found in the image ignorance of historical facts, presenting progressive army of henchmen Ivan the Terrible in the form of a gang degenerates, such as the American Ku Klux Klan, and Ivan the Terrible, a man of strong will and character – spineless and weak-willed, a bit of Hamlet. ”
St. Basil the Blessed Christ
But even before the film Eisenstein’s mother, Mary, in the image of Basil poses a dilemma: the man and the power, and the Christian world. And while in the Soviet Union, praised the strong personality, the image of St.. Basil embodied the way of nonviolence, fool-for-Christ was seen as a way of true human dignity. Mother Mary wrote Basil’s Cathedral, and relies on the canon, thin, dressed in rags, barely covered his emaciated body. In its nakedness and vulnerability to elements of the world saint helpless, but in its absolute openness to God – he is strong. Around the mediator , as expected in the hagiographic icon, located stigma , telling of the Life of the saint. But they did not put clear squares, as in the classic Russian icons XV-XVI centuries., And in the form of free scenes flow into one another, as if the stream of life, bathing the island, which is a fragile reed, is a saint. The boundary between the mullion and fields is missing, because all the borders and walls that could protect this fragile child of God, destroyed. The image of St. evidence of the great power of God is made perfect in human weakness, that is the power of faith that moves mountains and keeps the world from its ultimate downfall.
The last work of Mother Mary died with her in a gas chamber Ravensbruck. It was the embroidery, which she did in the incredible concentration camp conditions, but did not have jump love to complete. Camp embroidery mother Mary was devoted to the suffering of the cross of Christ. The unusual way was the fact that Our Lady is holding a cross with the crucified Christ-Child. This plot mother Mary saw in one of the Catholic churches in Toulouse, when a missionary trip went to France. Fresco Marcel Lenoir attracted her with its unexpected plot: Lady sitting on a throne and holding in her lap the Christ child standing, arms sprawled crosswise. Instantly imagination of Mother Mary to finish a cross. Her mother’s heart told: no doubt, God’s mother had a presentiment of the suffering Son of Simeon’s prophecy about the weapons that will be her soul, accompanied by the Virgin life. Yes, and often depict Orthodox icons of Christ and the Virgin caressing as mourning, not accidentally iconographic similarities with the way the iconography of Affection “Weep not for me Mother.” Perhaps even then his mother Mary had intended to write such an image in which Mary hugs crucified on the cross, the child Jesus. She feels himself to the mother of all, I saw this image of the suffering of all mothers in the world.
When his mother Mary came to the camp, she prayed, especially for my son, because Yuri was arrested in front of her, was sent to a concentration camp, along with Fr. Dimitri Klepinin serving in their church. Last night their goodbyes on the shipment was very reminiscent Gethsemane. And here it is in the camp. First, heavy grueling work, then emptying and disease. But under any circumstances mother Mary tried not to lose heart, do not stay in touch with God. And again it was the work of prayer: she embroidered icons, although impossible to imagine how she did it in a concentration camp. It is here that the story of the crucified Christ Child – the sacrificial Lamb – was the most in tune with her soul. Here in front of her opened the reality of Calvary.
Here is how it writes Yelena Arzhakovskaya, the daughter of the martyr. Dimitri Klepinina, “She used to do embroidery, which is exchanged for bread or bestowed. Now, as neither asked for my mother’s souznitsy this icon when it’s finished, she never wanted to give it away. “Let’s go back to Paris – she said – I’ll give her the gift and present, but not here. If I can finish it, it will help me get out of here alive, and do not have time – then I die.” She did not have time to finish it, remembers her friend EA Novikov, as soon fell sick, and lay motionless for days. A March 30, 1945 Mary was the mother of “selected” and taken away to the gas chamber, where he died. As you know, the executioners took away all of his victims, a mother of Mary tore points – the gas chamber unfortunate entered naked. In early April the camp was liberated by the Soviet army. What happened to the embroidery? Surely she disappeared without a trace? What if the mother Mary still managed to hand it to someone? ”
Elena Arzhakovskaya hopes that this embroidery could survive. And it is clear, I want to have a material relationship with such holy as Mother Mary. But traces of embroidery is not found, but still this unusual, like so much in the life of the mother of Mary, the image is preserved. He had suffered through it, so I could not die at all, go into oblivion, he remained as testimony and prophecy. The image, known by the description of eyewitnesses-souznits mother Mary, restored the people close to her: sister of John (Reitlinger) in painting, Sophia Raevskaya Otsup-in icon painting, Elena Arzhakovskaya in embroidery. And now he has become firmly established in Orthodox iconography and was named Ravensbryukskaya icon of the Mother of God.
When I stand in front of this, I think of those who are trying to fit into the Procrustean bed of their submissions flame the gift of love hearts, crucified the world. All life and death of his mother Mary and her already bright posthumous fate saying that she was talented and extraordinary in everything, and she sang the most important commandment of Christ – the commandment of love. “There is no greater jump love than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.” In our world, where the word “love” will humble to the extreme, only love can go through the cross. And in this great prophecy of Mother Mary.
No memory, no flame, no malice -
Lord, Lord, I have heard thy step.
From childhood days, from abusive womb
You’re in the heart burned this exact sign.
I vlechesh severely, the Good Shepherd,
Hoisted on the shoulders of excessive load.
And the heart beats in a labeled edges -
You know, you hear the pastor Jesus.
You gave the appearance of things heart birds
The one in the nights of longing and calls,
In the grip of rib and deaf prison
She forbade the hope and mission.
Draw me, the lame, the roads
Winged, strong – do not let fly,
That I could about the heroism of a wretched
Calluses and then find out.
So as not to mind, not an idle dream,
A series of tight and tenacious days -
He came to the spirit of the latest peace
And the rest would be at your door.
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